“TRUE FRIENDS ARE HARD TO COME BY”
Friendship is the bedrock of a happy life.
The essence of friendship is about care and respect. It has nothing to do with money, attractiveness, or the cool factor. A real and true friend is there for you, no matter what, and having such a person in your life is a great gift.
Friends will come and go in your life. No matter how long your friendship lasts, the most important thing is your friend’s acceptance of you for who you are. A good friend walks the talk and shows that they care by their actions- big or small.
Research has shown that the better the quality of your relationship, the more likely you are to be happy. So, being real and a true friend to someone and having friends support your back is good for your well-being. But what, exactly, makes a good friend?
Having good friends who love and support you for who you are is really important for your happiness. Figure out what makes a good friend, and learn how you can be there for your friends when they need you most.
1. Listen to them
The most important thing in friendship is to listen to your friends completely. Try and understand a situation from your friend’s point of view as well. Always feel free to ask questions to get to the problem or issue, but listen to them first. Do not assume all the answers of your own, talk, and then find a solution.
2. Always keep in touch
The other important thing is to keep in touch. Call them whenever you are free just to ask them how they are. Many people lose their friendship only because they do not talk frequently for a long time and they are not with them when they need you.
3. Forgive them for their mistakes
Forgiveness is very important in friendship because everyone makes mistakes so, rather than turning your back on a friend who has hurt you, talk about your pain. With this, you will get to know how real your friend is as he or she will apologize if you do so.
4. Share your emotions
Sharing your feelings with friends helps you live a better life. A real friend will never judge you with your things. So always share your emotions and feelings as this will make your bond stronger and long-lasting.
5. Keep up their secrets and promises
Always keep your friend’s secrets safe. Do not just yell them out as this will break their trust in you. Also, always keep up with your promises which you have made, this will let you both come closer and will help you in building up a healthy relationship.
6. Provide them with support
A real friend will always support his friend in his ups and downs. He/She will never leave them alone nor they will let them handle their situations unattended. Help them in their problems by giving them a hug and by listening to their problem.
7. Accept them the way they are
A true friend will always accept his/her friend in the same way as they are. They will always encourage you to become a better version of you, but they will always help you see the beauty of who you are right now.
8. Never get jealous
Never get jealous of your friend’s success or any achievement. Always support them and be a part of their achievement and celebrate together.
9. Be loyal in confidence and character
Do not lie to your friend whatever the situation is. If you do so you will break their trust in you and will also lose your friendship. Staying loyal will keep your friendship long-lasting.
10. Cheer them up
Always encourage your friends to take up new challenges in their life. Always be with them as a part of their family. This will make your bond stronger everlasting.